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nerdnik	It's my one year wedding anniversary tomorrow and my husband	Lead	[-]
Posts: 13769 (08/24/2008 6:17 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	hasn't planned anything. Instead, I'll be going to Niagara Falls with a friend who is visiting from Greece. I'm off from work tomorrow -- he could have planned to do something really nice. And before anyone suggests it, there were no surprises in the works. He admitted he hadn't specifically planned anything. I'm kinda really bummed
lilacrose82		#1	[-]
Posts: 12589 (08/24/2008 6:19 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Why didn't you plan anything?
PuraVidaPanama		#2	[-]
Posts: 11362 (08/24/2008 6:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	What were you expecting? curious
OhManImScrewed		#3	[-]
Posts: 12627 (08/24/2008 6:21 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I would be bummed too. I guess you could have planned something, but it just kind of seems like the guy should have a hand in it to be romantic.
CKpoohKC		#4	[-]
Posts: 15861 (08/24/2008 6:22 PM) Chris Fanatic '06 & '08 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	It's our 2 year anniversary on Tuesday and we haven't planned anything either. But we have so much going on that I almost DON'T want to do anything. We just had a nice dinner out for our 1 year.
nerdnik		#5	[-]
Posts: 13771 (08/24/2008 6:22 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I had a conversation with him not too long ago about how I miss getting wooed (however you spell it). I told him it was really important to me that he do some romantic gestures for me since they have really been lacking these past few years, and he agreed to make more of an effort. That's why I didn't plan anything.
PuraVidaPanama		#6	[-]
Posts: 11363 (08/24/2008 6:23 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Maybe if you woo him, he will feel more inclined to woo you. It goes both ways, really
nerdnik		#7	[-]
Posts: 13772 (08/24/2008 6:24 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	PuraVidaPanama wrote: What were you expecting? curious Nothing extravagant. Maybe a sweet card, a home made dinner featuring some of my favourite foods, a picnic in the park. I don't know. Something sweet that he had clearly put thought into.
Kris700		#8	[-]
Posts: 4949 (08/24/2008 6:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	A marriage takes two. You are fully capable of either planning something on your own or initiating a discussion with him to plan something together.
nerdnik		#9	[-]
Posts: 13773 (08/24/2008 6:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	rOXyPoP17 wrote: Is it too late to make dinner reservations or something? Maybe he's realized the error of his ways... Yeah, I already made other plans with my friend who is visiting from Greece.
PuraVidaPanama		#10	[-]
Posts: 11365 (08/24/2008 6:25 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Do one of those things for him tonight
DarklyDreaming07		#11	[-]
Posts: 37548 (08/24/2008 6:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just because he hasn't planning anything doesn't mean you won't get a card or gift.
DarklyDreaming07		#12	[-]
Posts: 37549 (08/24/2008 6:26 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Just because he hasn't planning anything doesn't mean you won't get a card or gift.
Mistress Darcy		#13	[-]
Posts: 4204 (08/24/2008 6:27 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Well, you do not know for sure that he did not plan anything like that. He may have just meant he did not plan an entire fun filled day of marital bliss. He could still buy you something or bring you dinner.
nerdnik		#14	[-]
Posts: 13774 (08/24/2008 6:27 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Kris700 wrote: A marriage takes two. You are fully capable of either planning something on your own or initiating a discussion with him to plan something together. Thanks, we already had a discussion. Not specifically about tomorrow, but about what I need emotionally from him. 'Wooing' me is what I need for him to do every now and again. I'm pretty sure everyone needs that -- I woo him sometimes. I don't think I'm being unreasonable here.
nerdnik		#15	[-]
Posts: 13775 (08/24/2008 6:28 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	DarklyDreaming07 wrote: Just because he hasn't planning anything doesn't mean you won't get a card or gift. I really don't want a gift. I would love a card though. Hopefully he sees just how bummed I am and puts something together for me.
CKpoohKC		#16	[-]
Posts: 15863 (08/24/2008 6:29 PM) Chris Fanatic '06 & '08 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	nerdnik wrote: Kris700 wrote: A marriage takes two. You are fully capable of either planning something on your own or initiating a discussion with him to plan something together. Thanks, we already had a discussion. Not specifically about tomorrow, but about what I need emotionally from him. 'Wooing' me is what I need for him to do every now and again. I'm pretty sure everyone needs that -- I woo him sometimes. I don't think I'm being unreasonable here. But he can do that on other days - a random Tuesday, something like that. Anniversary plans can easily be made by both parties.
lovinJoshua		#17	[-]
Posts: 3359 (08/24/2008 6:31 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	aww, I guess if he thought about something, or just told you that he loves you is good But I know if it was me, I would be upset..1st year of anniversary is important to me..but that's me
nerdnik		#18	[-]
Posts: 13776 (08/24/2008 6:31 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I guess you guys just don't get it. It's my fault though -- I should have anticipated these replies. FFS, contrary to what some of you are responding with, I don't think this marriage is all about me, or that the world revolves around me .... whatever it is you're trying to say.
celebtrashwhore		#19	[-]
Posts: 5004 (08/24/2008 6:33 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	But he cant do anything last minute now that youve made plans. Why would you do that?
Mistress Darcy		#20	[-]
Posts: 4206 (08/24/2008 6:33 PM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	nerdnik wrote: I guess you guys just don't get it. It's my fault though -- I should have anticipated these replies. FFS, contrary to what some of you are responding with, I don't think this marriage is all about me, or that the world revolves around me .... whatever it is you're trying to say. Its ok-I can kind of understand that you feel like the romance is gone and occasionally want some. Especially for such a MAJOR date in a couple's relationship. But, don't give up on it yet. Like I said, he just said he was not planning something. That does not mean he will not do anything at all.

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