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Posts: 10141 (11/13/2008 8:51 PM) |
Husband calls to see if I wanted to out to Buffalo Wild Wings with his coworkers after my best friend's memorial service saturday.
Yeah I'm going to up to partying after watching my best friend getting buried.
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Posts: 6302 (11/13/2008 8:52 PM) |
 I'm sorry for your loss.
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11/13/2008 9:00 PM.
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Posts: 24951 (11/13/2008 8:53 PM) |
I'm sorry for your loss and your husband being insensitive.
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Posts: 814 (11/13/2008 8:54 PM) |
 I would slap him silly. And close my legs for the next week or so.
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Posts: 10143 (11/13/2008 8:58 PM) |
Thank you and yes my legs are going to be closed for awhile. I don't know why he's acting like this. The day she died, he couldn't even make
dinner, I still had to do that.
 He's not usually this insensitive and I know he's not good with showing his emotions but I am and I need some
support!
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Posts: 3402 (11/13/2008 9:01 PM) |
Maybe he doesn't know what to say to you. Since you already said he's not good with emotions and everything, he probably thinks he can take you out
after to make you feel better.
Everyone deals with grief different ways. I wouldn't yell at him. Just sit him down and tell him that you don't feel like partying with his friends because your friend just died. Explain how you feel. |
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Posts: 10144 (11/13/2008 9:04 PM) |
I haven't yelled at him. I just wish he would comfort me. I've told him when he called just now that I'm not going to be up to it. He said it was
fine I just don't know how he would think I would want to do that. He should know me better.
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