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hipsnhearts	Would this be a deal breaker?	Lead	[-]
Posts: 1500 (07/02/2008 8:26 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	So, I'm dating this guy and everything is pretty good. He's cute, and nice, and everything is comfortable when I'm with him, and we get along well. However, he can't spell and when he talks he uses Was instead of Were. For example: I told you you was going to do a good job. I don't know if I can look past this. I know that's bad, but it really gets to me. Edited for bad grammar, imagine that! Edited By: hipsnhearts 07/02/2008 8:42 AM. Edited 1 time.
elites renee		#1	[-]
Posts: 19439 (07/02/2008 8:27 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Is it a deal breaker for you? I would have picked up on that before we started dating I think.
IdDoJC100Ways		#2	[-]
Posts: 22095 (07/02/2008 8:27 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	It would depend on whether he had a learning disability or not.
hipsnhearts		#3	[-]
Posts: 1501 (07/02/2008 8:28 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Well we're not together. I just started hanging out with him a lot, and going on dates and such.
Yeah Christianne		#4	[-]
Posts: 2816 (07/02/2008 8:28 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Well you said "get along good" so are you that much better? Personally, I'm such a snob with grammar so I wouldn't be able to stand it.
RoCkJ03		#5	[-]
Posts: 82404 (07/02/2008 8:28 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	The spelling wouldn't really bother me, but the speech would get to me.
muffinlover		#6	[-]
Posts: 9182 (07/02/2008 8:29 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	herecomestr0uble wrote: Yes I can't date a moron.
elites renee		#7	[-]
Posts: 19441 (07/02/2008 8:30 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	So you aren't even together? Just walk away from it if it bothers you that much.
hipsnhearts		#8	[-]
Posts: 1502 (07/02/2008 8:34 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yeah Christianne wrote: Well you said "get along good" so are you that much better? Personally, I'm such a snob with grammar so I wouldn't be able to stand it. You got me, I guess I have no room to talk, but this seems much worse.
xsunrise		#9	[-]
Posts: 6630 (07/02/2008 9:03 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	The way he talks would drive me absolutely insane! I can deal with the spelling, my ex was the worst speller I have ever known and it was actually kind of cute to see what he would come up with
jnlong		#10	[-]
Posts: 5593 (07/02/2008 9:05 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	xsunrise wrote: The way he talks would drive me absolutely insane! I can deal with the spelling, my ex was the worst speller I have ever known and it was actually kind of cute to see what he would come up with But ya the poor speaking would absolutely KILL it. Can you imagine being out in public with him? Or introducing him to friends/family?? I know mine would be like
LuckyBeach		#11	[-]
Posts: 82 (07/02/2008 9:06 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	no. THats really dumb if you like somebody but you don't want to date them because they have bad grammar. If they are truly udderly stupid, then I don't see the problem
shoebaby1		#12	[-]
Posts: 17399 (07/02/2008 9:07 AM) Most Dramatic JJBer '08 Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	how sad, I wouldn't care as long as he was sweet to me and we enjoyed eachothers company.
imnotsayingitright		#13	[-]
Posts: 23219 (07/02/2008 9:15 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yes. That would drive me nuts, and even if I couldn't tell immediately in what other ways he was stupid, I would know those ways were out there and I wouldn't want to stick around long enough to find out what they are.
Yeah Christianne		#14	[-]
Posts: 2820 (07/02/2008 9:20 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I'm just joking with you, it's bound to happen. If you're criticizing someone's grammar, you're inevitably going to mess up. But yeah, it would still drive me crazy.
SaveCleo		#15	[-]
Posts: 8163 (07/02/2008 9:31 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	That's definitely a deal breaker for me. Poor grammar is something I can't handle. It would drive me insane.
KSS1079		#16	[-]
Posts: 7473 (07/02/2008 9:36 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	Yeah, my boyfriend is horrible at spelling, but he speaks properly. I think that would definitely be a deal breaker for me.
hipsnhearts		#17	[-]
Posts: 1503 (07/02/2008 10:29 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	I am going to try to overlook it because I do enjoy hanging out with him.. even though it's going to drive me nuts! Maybe if we get more serious I can mention it to him, and we can fix it. Edited By: hipsnhearts 07/02/2008 10:32 AM. Edited 1 times.
hipsnhearts		#18	[-]
Posts: 1504 (07/02/2008 10:30 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	double post
velvet412		#19	[-]
Posts: 1709 (07/02/2008 10:31 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	yea i cant take that shit
jnlong		#20	[-]
Posts: 5595 (07/02/2008 10:40 AM) Reply Quote More Recent Posts Message Friend Block Invite Ignore	LuckyBeach wrote: no. THats really dumb if you like somebody but you don't want to date them because they have bad grammar. If they are truly udderly stupid, then I don't see the problem I can see why it wouldn't bother you.

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