S/O sort of: Did you ask your SO out or did they ask you out

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feeds@yuku.com (nerdnik) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 17:22:18 GMT

I accidentally budded in front of him in line at the TicketMaster booth on campus. It hadn't opened yet, so he was sitting kind of off to the side talking to some guy. When I realized that whoops - he was actually waiting and I had gone in front of him, I apologized and that's how the conversation started.

The guy he was talking to was just some other random guy in line. I don't know if he left or what ... after this part, he fades from my memory.

David (the...

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feeds@yuku.com (JRTs gurl 4eva) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 17:11:50 GMT

He asked me out.

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feeds@yuku.com (FreeSpiritSinger84) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 07:34:31 GMT

I first met him at my friends church. He and his friend came in to teach us how to swing dance. I thought he was a total dork when I met him and he thought I didn't even notice him so he didn't even think about me except he thought I was hot.

So I went swing dancing again with my friend because she wanted to see his good friend. They started going out and his friend asked if I wanted to go out with his friend for a double date type thing. So I agreed and he swept me off of...

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feeds@yuku.com (meeshigan) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 07:28:59 GMT

He asked me out at traffic school of all places. I sat next to him and we basically talked/laughed through the entire class. He wrote me a stupid note in the middle of the class saying "this is boring " and we wrote notes back and fourth, lol it was so middle schoolish. Anyway after class he asked me if he could take me out to dinner sometime.

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feeds@yuku.com (insomniachollie) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 07:15:51 GMT

I'm currently single, but I've always been the asker rather than asker

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feeds@yuku.com (JohnMayerObsessionist) — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 07:14:10 GMT

But I was the same way with him that you were. At first I had no intentions of dating him in a serious way, or really anyone for that matter, and I used to turn guys down all the time unless I could see myself marrying them or something. But for some reason when he asked me to dinner I just instinctively said yes and didn't even have to think about it at all. It all just seemed to make sense to...

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feeds@yuku.com (SLEEPYangel8705) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:41:41 GMT

awww kelli, yay!! I always said I wouldn't tie myself down to one person until I found someone that I just couldn't see myself NOT being with. And he was that for me. According to him it was the same thing with him. Neither of us believed in pointlessly dating people if you don't see a future with them. Gosh, it was such a relief.

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feeds@yuku.com (kelli wk) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:37:40 GMT

But I was the same way with him that you were. At first I had no intentions of dating him in a serious way, or really anyone for that matter, and I used to turn guys down all the time unless I could see myself marrying them or something. But for some reason when he asked me to dinner I just instinctively said yes and didn't even have to think about it at all. It all just seemed to make sense to...

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feeds@yuku.com (SLEEPYangel8705) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:32:22 GMT

JohnMayerObsessionist wrote:

We were trying to figure out the exact date we started dating once, and I went back in my phone to the first text message he ever sent me, the night of the day he'd first given me his number and that's the date it all started so that's what we've gone with for anniversary purposes ever since.

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feeds@yuku.com (SLEEPYangel8705) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:24:44 GMT
I remember this so vividly because I loved it.

We work together but had never really hung out outside of work. On Valentine's Day there was nothing to do so we were thinking of going to a bar or something after with a bunch of us... so we exchanged numbers then. Turns out, we never went that night but he started texting me and we made plans to meet up at his cousin's bar that weekend.

So a bunch of us...

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feeds@yuku.com (kelli wk) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:23:46 GMT
we met at a party and liked each other from there, I was friends with his best friend/roommate so I went to their house a few times and hung out with everybody, never really just with him. my best friend was determined to get us together so he talked us up to each other (I didn't think he really liked me). then one night we were sitting on a bench, everyone went inside, he leaned in to kiss me but I kissed him first, then he asked "will you be my lady" lol

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feeds@yuku.com (MissJessica86) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:20:54 GMT
Well, it was kinda weird. We had gone on a few dates and he was just like, "We're boyfriend and girlfriend right?" And then we were. It was stupid.

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feeds@yuku.com (JohnMayerObsessionist) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 19:19:54 GMT

He asked me.

I was dating around three other guys casually at the time. He'd just started working with me a few weeks before and had just gotten to know me over the span of about a week and a half. My friend that works with me mentioned I was dating three other people (because he has a big mouth) and my boyfriend seemed surprised but joked about it. A few days later, about an hour before I was supposed to get off work, he was working back there with me and asked me if he could...

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feeds@yuku.com (Mandy26981) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:29:52 GMT
He asked me out, we met at a friend's birthday party.

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feeds@yuku.com (imnotsayingitright) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:18:55 GMT
He asked me, but I can't remember the details! I remember all the details of him instigating our first ever conversation (), but it took about 8 months before he actually asked me out, and I can't remember the details of him actually asking me out. SAD!

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feeds@yuku.com (IrshDncr0325) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:16:05 GMT
We had been hanging out for a while like all the time. And one night we were just like, "So...how long have we been dating?" haha. Then we just picked a date back when we had started making it constant or whatever.

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feeds@yuku.com (sweetkisses4dl) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:12:51 GMT
He asked me out.

We had been crushing on one another for 3-4 months but we were both shy and never really talked to one another unless the other spoke first. we flirted through smiles and glances so it was obvious to everyone around us we were into one another. he finally made the first move by asking me to sit at his table at a restaurant that was crowded and we got to talking and spent a few weeks talking on the phone and spending time together. few weeks after that he asked me...

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feeds@yuku.com (this is a call) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:10:54 GMT
He asked me out. We had a class together and he would always say hey to me. Then towards the end of the semester he sat next to me one day and asked me.

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feeds@yuku.com (rokhas1yummybumbum) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:09:35 GMT
it just kind of happened. He made this long private livejournal post that only I could see that told me he really liked me and I guess it just came from there. we were in separate cities at the time and he came to visit me and when he got there and I introduced him to my mom it was meet my boyfriend.

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feeds@yuku.com (muffinlover) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:07:52 GMT
We knew each other back in high school and hung out as friends, and then we just sort of...were together after a while.

S/O sort of: Did you ask your SO out or did they ask you out

feeds@yuku.com (JohnMayerObsessionist) — Sun, 15 Jun 2008 14:07:06 GMT
How did it happen?

Include stories, if you want.